Do you realize that other people have already formed an opinion of you? Their opinion might be good, bad or indifferent, but they still have an opinion. Do you know that many times you can not change the way others feel about you? Stop trying to please everybody! First, please God and then please the other important people in your life. Most people that you are trying to please don't even matter. They don't provide your sunshine or rain; They don't pay your mortgage or your rent; They don't put gas in your car or food on your table. So, who cares what they think?
Guess what? I had to realize that most of them don't like me anyway. Therefore, if they already don't like me, why should I care what they think?